4 Ways to Help Your Teen Navigate Being Back at School

It can be really easy to get overwhelmed and frustrated when things aren’t going well. First, you are going to need to have grace for yourself. Your schedule and routines change right along with your teens. They will likely need more of you in some ways. They may be pulling away from you in others. This is normal.

You will need to give them grace, too. Their brains are changing fast and adjusting to a new school year, and new teachers and new people will be tough on them and may not bring out the best in them either. Allow for grace when things don’t go well. Breathe. Give yourself a time-out. Let them take one too. Regroup when you need to. Call a family meeting and talk it out. It is just fine to keep it chill on the weekends if you can, allow them extra downtime, a little extra sleep on the weekends, and maybe even less responsibility around the house for a bit if needed.

In the end, don’t forget to pray. Pray with and for them. Give it to God and remind them that He is there with them every step of the way.

As an educator I see your kids working through their day like champs. As a parent, like you I see them often collapse at my door at the end of that day. Remember you want your home to be a haven for them where they can just be themselves but also where they can grow in independence and use those great skills they are learning about life.

A new school year is a great place to regroup and let your teens find their voices. They are leveling up each year, which is a big deal. Remember, you’ve got this. And when you don’t? All the grace and flexibility for you, too, my friend. And God has got you, too.

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